Phase 7: Cosmos deployment

- Dockerfile with a check target (typecheck and tests) and one image per
  service on a pinned Node 22.20 Alpine base, each with only its own
  production dependencies and a health check.
- deploy/compose.yaml: gk-content, gk-admin and gk-site on homelab_network
  with no host ports, read-only root filesystems, no capabilities, the vault's
  Site folder mounted into the content service, and backup.dump=sqlite on it.
- deploy/deploy.sh builds and checks the commit, restarts the stack, and goes
  back to the last good tag if it doesn't come up healthy; rollback.sh swaps
  tags. .gitea/workflows/deploy.yml runs it on a host runner on Cosmos.
- docs/deploy.md runbook (settings, runner, mirror, NPM hosts, Turnstile,
  Healthchecks, backups, cutover) and the stack's inventory note in vault-kit.
- Site: trusts X-Forwarded-Host/Proto for gregkilmer.com hosts so form posts
  pass Astro's origin check behind the proxy; rate limits read
  CF-Connecting-IP; site URL set for absolute links.
- Content service: the held-change webhook carries a Discord-ready message;
  .env.example lists the core settings.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_012aSbo2D1qP8cMFQCykf7kx

services/site/src/lib/forms.ts

@@ -468,8 +468,11 @@ export class RateLimiter {
   }
 }
 
-/** The visitor's address: the proxy's X-Forwarded-For first, else the socket's. */
+/** The visitor's address: Cloudflare's CF-Connecting-IP, then the proxy's X-Forwarded-For, else the socket's. */
 export function clientIp(headers: Headers, fallback?: string): string {
+  // Cloudflare sets CF-Connecting-IP to the visitor's address and overwrites any copy a client sends.
+  const cf = headers.get("cf-connecting-ip");
+  if (cf) return cf.trim();
   const fwd = headers.get("x-forwarded-for");
   if (fwd) return fwd.split(",")[0]!.trim();
   return headers.get("x-real-ip") ?? fallback ?? "unknown";